婚姻中很有智慧的一句話~~~超經典

[table=98%][tr][td] [/td] [/tr] [tr][td=2,1][table][tr][td][/td][/tr][tr][td]岳父母結婚三十年，互敬互愛，從不吵架。

為此我結婚時特地去請教岳父大人。

岳父說：「 我結婚時我岳父就告訴我 『不要批評你太太的缺點或怪她做錯事， 要知道， 就是因為她有缺點， 有時做錯事， 才沒有找到更理想的丈夫。』 你要記住這句話。」[/td][/tr][tr][td]
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對,這個很是正確,
這直叫做丈夫的罵不得。
我亦在小說中看過。

又幾有道理喎! 不過如果太太都可以明白為甚麼老公總是有缺點和經常做錯事就更好了。

好似好有深道的話丫...

super agree ar..............hahaha

男女都可以用, 因為人真係無十全十美, 結婚後, 大家緊加需要包容

有缺點才有其可愛可貴的地方

huh? i may not have that talent to tolerate her fault... is it some kind of excuse or reason on that?

good saying, everyone gonna have some bad things ga la

thanks for sharing因為人真係無十全十美, 大家緊加需要包容

This statement is really good and practical.

Yes and no.

Don't bring up the dirty laundry definitely won't initiate any argument, helps the interpersonal relationship.

The flip side is: will there be re-occurrence of same mistake, same bad behavior, or even encourage the same bad behavior ?

I believe in: if I don't learn the lesson, I will make the same mistake again; if I don't learn the cheap lesson, I will learn the hard way.

From time to time, I struggle how to voice my opinions: watch out for the anticipated consequence before action. I struggle how to avoid damaging interpersonal relationship when pointing someone else dirty laundry.

Interpersonal skill and development is more an art than a science, and it will take a life itme to learn the tricks...........

回覆 - 婚姻中很有智慧的一句話~~~超經典

老婆錯我錯,
老婆對我對.
老婆唔歡喜,
今晚你就死.
嘻嘻, 說說笑無間題.

做夫妻但要多,
多關心,
多愛心,
多談話,
多表達.

完全同意(有缺點才有其可愛可貴的地方).........:em38:

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thank you

Great statement!

I agree with Villager...

Couple should have communitcation, this way the relatioship will be last forever.

Coming from the Father-in-Law, of course he will say something like this....

If my dad told me this when I get marry, I would believe it more.